.::Inner Peace::.

It’s funny how peace can come so suddenly… After being separated from peace for so long, you forget how light your “spirit” is. You forgot how orgasmic peace is… You feel renewed, restored… Or just overall reborn. 

"Love isn’t about just being with someone you enjoy being with. It’s connecting and existing with someone on a deeper level than with anyone else."

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You know, when you have kids and you love them and you’re proud of them you just want to kiss them on the mouth sometimes.

I love this… For so many reasons. For one, anytime I see a Black father with his child, loving them, and just spending time, it warms my heart. Will Smith never knew his dad. So this is even more beautiful. He never knew his dad, but has made sure to be the best father that he possibly could. I am so proud of this brother. Him and Jada, and his children. They all are deserving of praise.

bl0w-meeee:

m3dicat3d-happin3ss:

fuckimintrouble:

l0lplease:

k4tdaley:

cosettewould:

enjolraswould:

musichettawould:

youngcosettewould:

the-trouble-child:

billsikes:

ask-montparnasse:

//in complete seriousness
if any of you ever need someone to talk to
you are free to come to me, on or off anon
we can talk here or on skype or on email i am all ears all the time

((I’ve done it before and I’ll do it again.))

No matter how much I would get yelled at

I will break character for anyone who needs help. i’ll give you my Skype,my oovoo, anything. If you ever need help, and I mean ever, about anything, just come to me. I’m here.

The exact same as youngCosette said. Followers or fellow would blogs, I am here for you okay?

Off topic, but I am definitely here for anyone and everyone. If you ever need anyone to talk to, don’t ever, ever be afraid to contact me. I’m here, and I’d never turn a person away.

Really though. I legitimately care about all of you, even if we’ve never met.

ive done it before. im here for anyone who needs it c:

I’ve done it before and it breaks my heart that I’ll never get to convice her 100%

I’ve done it before and I’ll do it again.

This deserves way more notes. I do t give a fuck if this ruins your blog, or doesn’t suit your blog type. Grow the fuck up and reblog this post because it doesn’t hurt anyone.

I

Same here. I’ve stopped for crying strangers in the street… This is no different. There are people who are willing to be there for you. And sometimes strangers are the easiest to talk to. We have no preconceived notions about who you are, we have no “dirt” on you. We don’t care about that. We just want to help you help yourself. So, we’re all here for you. Take your pick!

bl0w-meeee:

m3dicat3d-happin3ss:

fuckimintrouble:

l0lplease:

k4tdaley:

cosettewould:

enjolraswould:

musichettawould:

youngcosettewould:

the-trouble-child:

billsikes:

ask-montparnasse:

//in complete seriousness

if any of you ever need someone to talk to

you are free to come to me, on or off anon

we can talk here or on skype or on email i am all ears all the time

((I’ve done it before and I’ll do it again.))

No matter how much I would get yelled at

I will break character for anyone who needs help. i’ll give you my Skype,my oovoo, anything. If you ever need help, and I mean ever, about anything, just come to me. I’m here.

The exact same as youngCosette said. Followers or fellow would blogs, I am here for you okay?

Off topic, but I am definitely here for anyone and everyone. If you ever need anyone to talk to, don’t ever, ever be afraid to contact me. I’m here, and I’d never turn a person away.

Really though. I legitimately care about all of you, even if we’ve never met.

ive done it before. im here for anyone who needs it c:

I’ve done it before and it breaks my heart that I’ll never get to convice her 100%

I’ve done it before and I’ll do it again.

This deserves way more notes. I do t give a fuck if this ruins your blog, or doesn’t suit your blog type. Grow the fuck up and reblog this post because it doesn’t hurt anyone.

I

Same here. I’ve stopped for crying strangers in the street… This is no different. There are people who are willing to be there for you. And sometimes strangers are the easiest to talk to. We have no preconceived notions about who you are, we have no “dirt” on you. We don’t care about that. We just want to help you help yourself. So, we’re all here for you. Take your pick!

.::Morning Musings: Salvation::.

So many people are seeking salvation, but none of those people are looking to save themselves. Their salvation, just like the rest of their lives, is out of their control.

God will save you, right? God delivers you from all harm, evil, sin, etc. But here is the thought that just came to me this morning. Follow me right quick.

What is the definition of salvation?

sal·va·tion  

/salˈvāSHən/
Noun
  1. Deliverance from sin and its consequences.
  2. Preservation or deliverance from harm, ruin, or loss.
Synonyms

rescue - saving - deliverance - redemption - escape

So, salvation is to be saved, preserved, or delivered from sin and its consequences, harm, ruin, or loss…
…So you’re looking for salvation from the same deity that brought you into sin, harm, ruin, and loss. Your deity knew before it created anything what the outcome would be. He knew every pain and hardship you’d have. In fact, “he” made every pain and hardship you have in your life and will have in your life. In his own book, he tells you that he created both good and evil. He is all powerful, the devil is not. So anything the devil does, your deity allowed it.

And yet! YOU seek salvation from that same being. What sense does this make?

Your god and salvation is yourself. Quit giving your power to another.

Mornings With My Son

He had just finished getting his school uniform on, and he climbed onto my tall, queen sized bed. When I say he climbed, he climbed then was about to stand up on the edge of it. He lost his balance and was about to fall, but I caught his arm and helped him find his balance. He looked at me with so much love and sincerity and said, “I always knew you’d save me. You’ll always save me. You’re my mommy.”

fuckyeahcracker:

fuckyeahcracker:

Effects Of Thinking White People Are “All Like That”:

  • Literally nothing other than white people having their feelings hurt on the internet
  • I’m not joking there is no real world consequence of this

Effects Of Thinking People of Color Are “All Like…

“there are no REAL WORLD consequences for thinking “all white people are like that.”

I Like to be Dominated. Does that mean I’m not a Feminist?

I am a womanist/Black feminist… But when it comes to men, I enjoy a very strong minded, physically strong, intellectual, “take charge”, for all intents and purposes, an “alpha male” kind of man.

Here’s where it gets tricky. I want him to be a womanist/Black feminist, too.

Apparently, the two things are a paradox and are mutually exclusive. Being an alpha male, by default, will make you chauvinistic is what I’m seeing.

A sister I were discussing why I like the “alpha male.” She brought up sex. And that is true, because it’s something I struggle with accepting about myself. When I have sex, NOTHING turns me on more than a man dominating me, being rough (with the right amounts of gentleness thrown into the mix).

This confuses me and clashes with my feminist ideologies. I’m having trouble reconciling these likes with my views.

Are these desires just remnants of the patriarchy and misogyny that was ingrained in me? Or… Can I just happen to like this shit?

Everything we do has to be evaluated and reevaluated, because everything we do, think, say… Our beings have been affected by white supremacy and all that falls under its umbrella (male privilege, misogyny, classism, homophobia, white beauty aesthetic, etc, etc, ETC!).

.::Womanism is (Black) Feminism is Womanism::.

The fact that you, a Black male, can only see your view is your part of your privilege/part of the problem. Any Black leader worth a damn has said “the MOST oppressed PERSON is the Black woman.” We have been beaten, raped, whipped, made to bear children we didn’t want, made to lose children we did, unprotected, unloved, unable to turn to the right, because the white man’s foot is on our neck, but unable to turn to the left, because the Black man’s foot is on our neck. I am TIRED of these negroes who cannot—no—who WILL NOT see past their own privilege. I’m light-skinned. I can acknowledge and combat my privilege. You’re a MALE. You should be able to see how—even in a white supremacist society—you experience privilege. In this white supremacist society, it is WHITE first. (Hetero) MALE next. Because of this, you BLACK MAN, will receive SOME privilege, but not ALL the privilege. We are not saying you are not oppressed. We are saying that even oppressed, you will receive some privilege. Black women are just as targeted as Black men. We receive just as much brutality and terrorism. It seems like less because it’s less talked about. It’s ignored. Black men and Black women weep for Black men. Only Black women—and not even all of us—weep for Black women.

I am a feminist/womanist, and I will not play semantics with your coon ass about “oh, but feminism is from the WHITE MAN.” Don’t insult my intelligence, as if I don’t know about feminism and its origins. Will you feel better if I say “Black feminism?” Or is the issue really that the idea of Black women freeing themselves from the oppression of Black men what really bothers you?

I see comment after comment after fucking comment from ignorant “brothas” who don’t know shit about womanism/feminism, yet they will comment with pure, unadulterated hatred and venom toward the topic. Some will attempt to dress it up with fancy words and pseudo-consciousness.

Despite what you believe, the Black man is NOT the foundation of the Black family… but that does not mean you aren’t needed. It doesn’t diminish your role, but the black family does not revolve around you, as you believe.

It’s said that “the comments in any post about feminism JUSTIFY feminism.” And that is 100% truth. Talk about feminism with any race, and what is said will quickly show that feminism/womanism IS oh so fucking necessary.

And you know what else? I’m sick of these NIGGAS, these pseudo-conscious niggas, only discussing Assata Shakur. Why is this the only sistah you know?! And why is it that when you DO acknowledge a sistah who is a Black leader, you sexualize her? You only see her value as it would benefit you. You view her as a wife, not a leader.

I’m so tired of this conversation. Black women aren’t allowed to talk about their experiences when those experiences “make Black men look bad.” We’re supposed to remain ever loyal, ever quiet, and only speak when speaking out against the oppression of Black men.

In some things, the Black woman IS less oppressed than the Black man. But that isn’t a privilege. We aren’t given anything that Black males aren’t given. If it seems that we have some privilege, that is due to us being less threatening. We are not worth their fear. White men don’t fear women. Period.

and then some idiot posted “why I am no longer a feminist.” Should I make a post about “Why I am no longer pro-Black?” Because the Black movements seem to be very anti-woman, anti-LGBTQ…

I’m rambling now, I know. But I’m sick of this nonsense. These Black males prove my point and the other sisters’ points EACH TIME they post their ignorance of feminism/womanism.

You fighter harder against us, your sisters, than you do white supremacy. Lol. the Black woman has NEVER oppressed the Black man. Sexism and oppression are NOT possible from the Black woman… The same way racism is not possible from Black people.

Socialism and communism may have their flaws… But capitalism is one big flaw. And I’m not sure that the issue with socialism and communism is the ideologies themselves, so much as it is with the corruptness of people.

I lean toward the latter.

More to come. Just sharing a random thought :)